If you are like most teachers I know,
you receive, on some level, gifts from students and parents.
But what makes a great teacher gift?
I will share with you some ideas that, for me, are perfect teacher gifts.
My favorite gifts are not the expensive presents that parents buy for teachers,
but the heartfelt gifts that come from the students themselves.
Stories abound about jewelry and perfume and other "used" items that students have gifted to their teachers. These for me are the truly the special gifts because they come from the student's heart. They want to share or give you something that means something to them, and maybe their family does not have the means to buy gifts for the teacher, no matter how much they love or appreciate her or him. They put heartfelt thought into finding something because the come from the heart.g they think you will like that they already have or something that is special to them. These gifts touch my heart.
I once had a young lady named Stacy in my 3rd grade class. Stacy had had a rough life and was living with her grandparents who had very little money to spare. Stacy knew I loved frogs and would make it a point to look for little froggy things at yard sales, etc. Her grandmother told me that she
would always use her own money to buy these items for me; little plaques, key-chains, stuffed animals, and such. She was so happy when she presented me with these little gifts and I always made a big deal about how much they meant to me. Many years later, and no longer a collector of frogs, I still have some of these small trinkets saved because they remind me of Stacy's generous heart.
The drawings and notes I receive from students are all kept in a binder of my "Love Notes" or tacked to my wall or bulletin board to show that I am proud of their gift.
Just about everybody loves flowers. I know I do, but I especially appreciate the little gestures: the dandelions and weed flowers found on the playground and brought to me during or after recess, the roses picked from a garden on their way to school, hopefully from theirs. If you ever see a child picking a flower from your garden, (as long as they are not vandalizing it!) let it go and know they want to give that flower to someone special. Teachers (and moms) treat these flower gifts the same as you would a dozen roses. Admire them, put them in a vase or jar on your desk. That child is giving something of him or herself with that flower.
Now, don't get me wrong, I like "nice" gifts too. Gift cards for Amazon, bookstores, coffee, and fast food restaurants in the area (for when I get time to go out to lunch ;) ) are much-appreciated!
But what means the most are cards and notes of genuine appreciation! They make up for the negative notes, phone calls, and comments and can very often brighten an otherwise challenging day.
The token gifts, coffee mugs, etc. are OK. And while I appreciate the thought behind baked goods, unless I know the person very well that is doing the giving, I do not usually eat them (although I do thank the child that brings it in!)
Ultimately, if you are going to give a teacher a gift, make it count.
It doesn't have to cost a lot to really matter.
What counts is the thought behind the gift.
So no matter how tacky, broken,
used or ugly something may be,
if it is given to you by a child,
know that it comes from the heart,
and accept it with your open one.
best gift most meaningful gift
you ever received from a student or parent?
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